By no means were these messenges meant to bring strife between humans.
They are of a totally different order.
They present us with a way of enlightenment, and all attachment to traditional roles of human relationships are an obstacle to that.
In other words, this is a declaration of war against our ordinary way of thinking.
To perceive, to really perceive my neighbor, any other human being, I will have to come free of my personal view of him, even, and especially, the most commune relationships like family.
Love each other, but hate those false traditionally brought ways of how we see one another.
Imagine your father or your mother not as father or mother, but as an entirely different human being, despite the familiarity years of "knowing" each other brings to us. Destroy the familiarity, destroy the mask, the false picture you have made of this wonderful human.
Free yourself of all those small and large scenes which you have lived together, where you have taken offense of him or her, where you thought you were right to be hurt, to be angry, to be not in tune with the members of your family.
This is forgiveness...