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Hallo,
ich bin total verzweifelt.
Mein Name ist Yvonne und ich habe übers Internet einen Amerikaner kennengelernt.
Er heisst Richard, ist 45 Jahre alt und wohnt in USA.
Erst begann der Kontakt sehr vielversprechend, nun hat er mir gestern mitgeteilt,
dass er mich äusserst interessant, äusserst charmant und ich weiss nicht was alles findet,
aber er suche eine frau in seiner Nähe.
Obwohl wir uns auch über eine mögliche Partnerschaft hinaus viel zu sagen haben (gleiche Interessen !)
scheint er mit einer zumindest vorerst - virtuellen - Bekanntschaft bzw. Freundschaft nicht einverstanden zu
sein, trotz seiner Begeisterung für mich.
Ich bin jedoch der Auffassung, dass seine Angst vor der Entfernung überwunden werden kann und
bitte Sie herzlichst, mir zu sagen, ob Sie mir helfen werden, ihn für mich trotz der grossen Entfernung
zu gewinnen (ich bin grundsätzlich bereit, später umzuziehen !)
Bitte helfen Sie mir oder antworten Sie mir zumindest.
Dann können wir auch über den Preis, der das kosten würde sprechen.
Man kann mich über
zerbinettina@web.de
anschreiben.
Anbei seine letzte mail an mich zur Information.
Thank your for your last messages - there are absolutely no hard feelings from
me, and certainly not hate: I don't know why you should even think so. As I
said in my last email, you seem like a very nice person, very talented, and
very interesting. I have been interested in dating locally and intimately, in
a way that makes sense geographically and in relation to my time and abilities.
I did not anticipate your communication (directly and from outside my desired
range), under circumstances that I am unfortunately not able to sustain. I
have wanted you to understand that you are a fascinating, wonderful-sounding
person, but I am a little overwhelmed and unprepared for such a relationship.
The weakness is on my side, not yours. This is why I want to wish you great
luck and success in finding a soul mate.
Und hier Teile aus meiner letzten mail an ihn:
Bitte helfen Sie mir, damit zumindest ein freundschaftlicher Kontakt
zu ihm bleiben kann - oder gar mehr in Zukunft, wenn möglich
I am not a woman who is not flexible enough, I try to improve
and to learn day by day
Your physical appearance, your thoughts, your cultured behaviour ,
the way you wrote to me - this gave me the feeling to be
tied up to nature, to earth, I have n e v e r felt this before, not when
I met my first husband, not later, not earlier
I thought I could smell the healthy smell of earth, I felt the first
time in my life connected to nature when communicating, the first
time I had connection to my sense of basic trust.
may be this sounds strange - may be you think that
mainly you sounded music-oriented, cultured and intellectual
to me. Yes, you did, Richard, but in addition this nature feeling
came across what I have never experienced before.
you came across like a beautiful tree which I wanted to
embrace, if not in reality (by now or never ?) than at least
virtually. If our communication would have grown,would
have got the chance to grow - then - if appreciated by you -
I would have found a way one day to give you the chance
to get to know me in real life. I was not playing with you at all,
did not intend to fool you by only virtual interest.
Now I will probably never have the chance to
retrieve what I have done wrong due to being interested
in our communication.
Never again I will smell the natural, earth aura/perfume
I felt inside when letting your profile/your photo/your mails
into my soul.
...
I understand your geographical statement, the weakness you tried
to express to me.
But to be honest Richard: you are not weak, not at all.
Looking at your life, at your appearance, at your success and your
photo, looking at your different tasks, you are not weak.
Life is similar to a strand,
where the ocean of your destiny
is washing new things ashore to your inner soul
tirelessly
May be you will be meet new people or you may develop
new words, wisdom
or experiences or thoughts.
Like mussels they are lying
on your strand, just waiting to be found by you...
Then hold this particular mussel to the sun
and draw your attention to its soughing.
Beste Grüsse
Yvonne
ich bin total verzweifelt.
Mein Name ist Yvonne und ich habe übers Internet einen Amerikaner kennengelernt.
Er heisst Richard, ist 45 Jahre alt und wohnt in USA.
Erst begann der Kontakt sehr vielversprechend, nun hat er mir gestern mitgeteilt,
dass er mich äusserst interessant, äusserst charmant und ich weiss nicht was alles findet,
aber er suche eine frau in seiner Nähe.
Obwohl wir uns auch über eine mögliche Partnerschaft hinaus viel zu sagen haben (gleiche Interessen !)
scheint er mit einer zumindest vorerst - virtuellen - Bekanntschaft bzw. Freundschaft nicht einverstanden zu
sein, trotz seiner Begeisterung für mich.
Ich bin jedoch der Auffassung, dass seine Angst vor der Entfernung überwunden werden kann und
bitte Sie herzlichst, mir zu sagen, ob Sie mir helfen werden, ihn für mich trotz der grossen Entfernung
zu gewinnen (ich bin grundsätzlich bereit, später umzuziehen !)
Bitte helfen Sie mir oder antworten Sie mir zumindest.
Dann können wir auch über den Preis, der das kosten würde sprechen.
Man kann mich über
zerbinettina@web.de
anschreiben.
Anbei seine letzte mail an mich zur Information.
Thank your for your last messages - there are absolutely no hard feelings from
me, and certainly not hate: I don't know why you should even think so. As I
said in my last email, you seem like a very nice person, very talented, and
very interesting. I have been interested in dating locally and intimately, in
a way that makes sense geographically and in relation to my time and abilities.
I did not anticipate your communication (directly and from outside my desired
range), under circumstances that I am unfortunately not able to sustain. I
have wanted you to understand that you are a fascinating, wonderful-sounding
person, but I am a little overwhelmed and unprepared for such a relationship.
The weakness is on my side, not yours. This is why I want to wish you great
luck and success in finding a soul mate.
Und hier Teile aus meiner letzten mail an ihn:
Bitte helfen Sie mir, damit zumindest ein freundschaftlicher Kontakt
zu ihm bleiben kann - oder gar mehr in Zukunft, wenn möglich
I am not a woman who is not flexible enough, I try to improve
and to learn day by day
Your physical appearance, your thoughts, your cultured behaviour ,
the way you wrote to me - this gave me the feeling to be
tied up to nature, to earth, I have n e v e r felt this before, not when
I met my first husband, not later, not earlier
I thought I could smell the healthy smell of earth, I felt the first
time in my life connected to nature when communicating, the first
time I had connection to my sense of basic trust.
may be this sounds strange - may be you think that
mainly you sounded music-oriented, cultured and intellectual
to me. Yes, you did, Richard, but in addition this nature feeling
came across what I have never experienced before.
you came across like a beautiful tree which I wanted to
embrace, if not in reality (by now or never ?) than at least
virtually. If our communication would have grown,would
have got the chance to grow - then - if appreciated by you -
I would have found a way one day to give you the chance
to get to know me in real life. I was not playing with you at all,
did not intend to fool you by only virtual interest.
Now I will probably never have the chance to
retrieve what I have done wrong due to being interested
in our communication.
Never again I will smell the natural, earth aura/perfume
I felt inside when letting your profile/your photo/your mails
into my soul.
...
I understand your geographical statement, the weakness you tried
to express to me.
But to be honest Richard: you are not weak, not at all.
Looking at your life, at your appearance, at your success and your
photo, looking at your different tasks, you are not weak.
Life is similar to a strand,
where the ocean of your destiny
is washing new things ashore to your inner soul
tirelessly
May be you will be meet new people or you may develop
new words, wisdom
or experiences or thoughts.
Like mussels they are lying
on your strand, just waiting to be found by you...
Then hold this particular mussel to the sun
and draw your attention to its soughing.
Beste Grüsse
Yvonne
